NFL player Larry Johnson used a homophobic slur on Twitter this weekend and at the team headquarters the next day. He has issued his obligatory apology “I regret my actions. The words were used by me in frustration, and they were not appropriate,” he said through a spokesman. “I did not intend to offend anyone, but that is no excuse for what I said.” Please explain to me how can you use this word and not intend to offend anyone. The term is on its face derogatory and offensive. The “I was frustrated defense” is simply not enough. Johnson went on to say that he also apologized to “all the kids who view athletes as role models. I was not a good role model yesterday and hopefully I can become a better role model. We all make mistakes, and the challenge is to learn from them. I will do my best to learn from this one as I move toward becoming a better person, teammate, and member of the Kansas City Chiefs team and community.” Let’s flip the script here if an opposing player called Johnson the n-word would he have recommended sensitivity training for the offending player? No, he would want the guy suspended and possibly fined because he would say the guy should have known better. Well, Johnson should also know better. Words have power. Carl Walker Hoover and Jaheem Herrera were both middle school students who committed suicide, they were both victims of homophobic bullying. Bullying which included the use of offensive names. Yes, words have power and people use them as weapons and that is what Johnson did, and he needs to be held accountable, and not simply a wink and a nod until he utters another offensive remark the next time he becomes frustrated.