This morning a friend of mine sent me a photo that had supposedly been taken of a book display in a Barnes and Noble store in Coral Gables, Florida. The display featured a number of books on President and Mrs. Obama, and it also featured a book on monkeys. Someone at the store probably thought this was hilarious. Why would someone do something so offensive? As I continued the talk with my friend I said, “I just don’t know why white people don’t know us. I have lived with my husband for 15 years and I know what ticks him off. We have been here for 400 years and they still don’t know us.” She replied “they don’t know us they “tolerate us”, and therein lies the real issue. When you tolerate someone you do not make the effort to get to know them. If you work with them you do your job and at the end of the day you just run in the opposite direction. This week we saw a mayor of a California town send an email that said the upcoming Easter Hunt was being replaced by a Watermelon Roll. He was surprised that some of the readers thought the email was offensive. It is hard for me to believe that someone would not know that this would tick not just black people but most people off. Hopefully, we will not have to spend the next four years reading and seeing things that anger us, but the only way this will stop is if we get to know each other and stop just simply tolerating each other.